Thursday, July 24, 2008

What a Month

This month was not as we had planned, I guess that's called life. Recently there have been two sad things that have happened to our families. So with that in mind we have not been doing a good job posting things here.

Near the end of June my Mom was in a car accident. She got hit head on in the middle of the afternoon by a drunk driver on a state highway. She's been in the hospital with a broken pelvic book, fractured leg, a blood clot, and some bruising. Two weekends ago I went out there (Ohio) to help her set up her apartment since she was released from the hospital. She is doing tons better but will not be able to put any weight on her leg until September so she has to use a wheel chair until then.

As you may recall Lajuana’s Mom had an aggressive melanoma cancer removed and consequently had some lymph nodes removed several months back. She has been checked out every month and had a CAT scan just two months ago. However, recently she has not been herself by not comprehending what she reads or sometimes what people are saying. She has hearing aids and still has some problems hearing and much was associated with that. Things were noticeably different and she went in this past week to her doctor. They ran some tests and thought at first she had a minor stroke, later tests revealed that not to be the case. They did an MRI and some other tests and found a tumor on her brain. She was admitted to the hospital at once and has been there since last Thursday. She is on some medication to reduce the pressure of the tumor on her brain, causing her comprehension problems, and she is doing better. She starts radiation treatment next week and then possible surgery. In short the tumor is directly related to that melanoma, surgery and radiation will only reduce the size and pressure. The prognosis is not good. Lajuana’s Dad has deteriorated and is unable to function without full time help, which her Mom has been able to provide. He is now in an Alzheimer's nursing home while Lajuana's Mom gets treatment… so needless to say huge emotions and difficulties are being faced. Lajuana is holding up well but much taken back in the turn of events that have happened so quickly. Your thoughts and prayers are welcome on behalf of Rust's.

We'll keep you posted on both Mom's.


Thanks again all
--JOHN

10 comments:

Pulcheria said...

Love you, thinking of you and praying for your mom(s). Let me know if there is ANYTHING I can do from here.

Doreen said...

I'm sorry, that's a lot to go through in one month! We'll keep you guys in our thoughts and prayers.

The Kooky Queen--Rachel said...

Oh my goodness, those are huge trials to be dealt with all at once! Your family is so strong and our prayers are with you that everything will go well and your family will be able to get through this! Love you!

kanaboke said...

Praying for both Moms!! I'm so sorry that both events have happened so close together and to both families. Please keep us posted.

Jessica Engh said...

I'm so sorry to hear the sad news. We will keep both of your moms in our prayers.
Much love,

Karen said...

Oh hey you guys, didn't know you had a website. Sorry to hear about each of your mothers. We will keep you/them in prayer and thought. check us out at kbmatsen.blogspot.com
see ya, karen (and brian)

The Cooks said...

Sorry Sapps. You guys are such a strong beautiful family. I hope things will be ok and that you can feel the eternal love of Heavenly Father and friends through this.

Kristin said...

I'm sorry to hear that, you all will definately be in our prayers!

Sarah H said...

I'm so sorry to hear about your moms. That is terrible to be hit by a drunk driver.
The situation with lajuanna's mom is very sad. I wish it weren't so.
I'll be thinking and praying about you. Take care and hope to see you soon. Is there anything I can do for you?

Erin said...

We're so sorry to hear about your moms. We're thinking of you and keeping you in our prayers. My grandparents are in St. George if Lajuana's parents need a visit we could see if they could make one. Love you guys!